Koro’s Corner: Corrupted

Articles 13 April 2011 | Published By Koro
Koro’s Corner: Corrupted

Hey guys,

I didn’t get to post anything last week because I was swamped with school work (not like any of you guys noticed *side-eye*)

So when it’s Election time, every Nigerian decides he/she is the next Politician. I don’t want to sound like a spoiled brat but when it comes to politics i like to sit back and listen/read because that’s one area I don’t like to mess with. I don’t want to come off sounding ignorant or uneducated so I just feed off my twitter timeline or conversations with my friends.

Last week there was a heated debate on my timeline about Politicians being corrupted, you know same old same old but this time it was a little different. People started including Politicians and their children, like if a politician is corrupted that means his child or his children are corrupted because they choose to look away from their father’s corrupted ways. I mean I am not one to judge and I’m not a self righteous person but this debate was interesting. The sins of a father weighing heavy on his children’s shoulders.

I have friends that are children of Politicians and they were very upset to say the least. I mean, opinions are always flying left and right on twitter and there’s only so much you can say to complete stranger with 140 characters without getting frustrated with yourself.

so picture this: You’re in your third year at a fancy, expensive college in Manchester or Texas or New York. You have one more year to graduate and then you are off to Grad school or whatever plans you have for your future. Since you’ve been in school, you have never worried about loans or late payments. Your Dad has taken care of you really of your college life so far. Suddenly you find out that your dad is a thieving Politician and he’s been stealing money that was meant for the state or the country or whatever the case maybe. You have two options really…..

1. Emancipate yourself completely from your parents. Take out loans that will take forever to pay off just to support what’s left of your college years. You have to find jobs and work until you are somewhat stable again. and if you get unlucky you might have to drop out of your fancy college and return home. Some-one might argue and say this the ‘right’ thing to do but who can really define what’s right and what’s wrong?

2. You can just pretend you never found out about the corruption and just hope and pray your dad never gets caught stealing money. You can talk to him and express how you feel about him stealing money. You can go on living your comfortable life acting like you don’t know what’s really going on. Some-one might argue and say this is very wrong but who can really define what’s right and what’s wrong.

I’m not a self righteous person. I like to play devil’s advocate and get people to think outside the box or consider different point of views because nothing is ever black or white. there are grey areas.

You have to understand people will do anything to survive, especially Nigerians. Politicians maybe stealing money but understand there are other professions in Nigeria. Bankers steal money as well, I had a friend openly admit to me that she knows her dad steals money and she does not care as long as her school fees are getting paid and she’s getting her Louis bags in the mail. I mean when she told me I was like ‘woah’ but I got over it even though I did not respect her as much anymore.

I’m trying to get you guys to think with me here, if you found out your parents were stealing money, what would you do?

  • Bolanle

    Inform them of my awareness and convince them to change.

  • funmi

    This is a tough one. I wldnt even know how to approach them. I guess I’ll just keep shut and suck up the guilt

  • mj

    Well in dis sitaution yhu can’t leave ur parents obviousli because ure a student and its goin to b difficult fendin for ur self however talk to ur parents about it, advice them nt to stop, for the fact that they r informed that yhu no about their evil ways, they will change.

  • jbabe

    Personally, I would go with number 1, abandoning your father will most likely not make him stop stealing money anyways…

  • mj

    Well in dis sitaution yhu can’t leave ur parents obviousli because ure a student and its goin to b difficult fendin for ur self however talk to ur parents about it, advice them to stop, for the fact that they r informed that yhu no about their evil ways, they will change.

  • moji

    I agree with @bolanle :)

  • Tomi

    I don’t know what I’ll do but I don’t know whether or not I’ll wanna mess up my ‘great’ life but it also depends on how far I am in school. I hope it never happens though

  • Phoenix

    Well TBH speaking in realistic terms and based on the relationship I have with my dad, I'll talk to him. If he can give me ONE good reason why he is doing such, I'll suck up mu guilt if not it's either he stops or I leave.

  • tobi b

    I’ll rather fend for myself

  • Mr. Noble

    It's good to be pragmatic…running away to ease your conscience won't change anything, in fact your the one with something to lose and confronting your parent with a naive argument probably won't get to them especially since your life is 100% dependent on them. So the idea is to benefit from your parent then try your best to convince them when your idea would be respected i.e when you become independent. Otherwise It's just like your baby sibling trying to preach to you, which is futile.

  • A’feye

    I agree with what Funmi said.. Yu can’t just ignore the money yo! x_x

  • http://tokie44.tumblr.com Tokie

    Well,honestly even though I’d feel bad about it,I’ll just go with it!

  • K.O

    I have to agree with Mr Noble. Whatever happens its a lose lose situation.

  • Muna

    I agree with Mr Noble.

  • Nancy

    Well,Obviously I Can’t Leave My Parents When I’m A Student ..Its Going To Be Very Hard .. So I’ll Just Accept The Situation And Live With It ..Or Better Still Act Like I Don’t Knw ..

  • AnonymousRexx

    Truth is cause you're a student there's really not much you can do, walking away from you parents is a rather daft thing to do (my opinion). Speaking to your father about it seems rather easy when you think about it but it's far from easy. Truth is there's no wrong or right. Just stay out of people's ways so they don't finish you cause of your father's stuvinz! :D

  • A.Y

    My dad is in politics. And he doesn’t steal. He’s too proud to. So I detest unlearned snotty children saying all nigerian politicians are thieves. Im always like “hold it there. What do you know you’re saying?”. Like people have no family member in oolitics or anything and they criticise politicians the most. Its like stfu you’ve no idea what you’re on about. Anyway to put myself in someone else’s shoes;If my dad was a thief and I found out. I would finish college/uni. Ofcourse I wouldn’t drop out. Im not foolish. All this talk that you’d cut yourself off. Its bs. When you’re used to something its hard to let it go. So il be real and tell you I won’t cut myself off. No way. Ofcourse there’d be the constant fear of being nabbed and having to drop out of college/uni but Id be able to live with it. But When im on my own;i.e. done with college and uni and such, Id turn him in sharp!!!! He’d loose all the respect I had for him as soon as I realised he stole anyway so I wouldn’t care about the impact turning him in would have.

  • annonymus

    Omo I go dey chop d money dey go!!!Shey whn Efcc cmes tz nli my dad they will arrest lmao…They won’t arrest me 4 choping the money
    Nd plus on a serz note,nobody can say they are in politics and are not choping money,dat 1 na lie,cuz no matter hw small,1 day u will chop n clean mouth
    Ill jst talk 2 my popsi 2 keep t n d low and not steal 2 much so they dnt nab hiim
    Cuz lts b honest money good!!!!
    Truth is everybody will say ill tell him 2 stop blah blah but whn ure n d situation,u really wouldn’t want 2 stop living lavish
    Look @ it this way,if my papa no chop am,sm1 else will
    So we might as well get our fair share of the national cake in my family too…….

  • annonymus

    @ AY no hard feelings,dint read ur comment till now so plzz don’t think I was referring to you whn I said if ure n politics u go chop 1 day…….

  • Adaeze

    I’ll feel bad about it but as a student, there’s really nothing much I can do about it.. So I guess I’ll have to go with it .

  • Anonymous :D

    Everybody steals.. In one way or the other.. Cut the children some slack..

  • thelostgetfound

    @Anonymous LOL .. I did actually think you were referring to me.. Haha. its cool anyway .. you're entitled to an opinion. :)

    - AY

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